Stop Asking Men For Things You Can’t Afford – Williams Uchemba Tells Ladies

August 16th, 2024



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Nollywood actor Williams Uchemba has shared his thoughts on the growing trend of Nigerian women feeling entitled to men’s financial resources.

In a post on his Facebook page, Uchemba addressed women who expect men to provide them with things they cannot afford, suggesting that this attitude is a reason why many of them remain single. He emphasized the distinction between making polite requests and making demands, stressing the importance of humility and effective communication in relationships. Uchemba’s post aims to encourage women to adopt a more respectful and considerate approach when interacting with men, rather than feeling entitled to their financial support.

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In his words:

“Ladies listen, there is a law that says anything you cannot afford do not request it in a restaurant.

“There is a mentality that is creeping in most women in this generation and this is the reason you say there is no husband. I don’t think you have any business requesting things that you can never get to afford in your wildest dreams even if you work for 10 years from a man.

“It is a spirit. There are some of you that will end up not getting married until you deal with it. Because no man will want to put you in his house. It has become a pandemic where most women now think it is normal to make crazy requests. What you need to understand is that any man who likes you genuinely will spend on you.

“Why are you asking for a G wagon, iPhone 15 from a man when you know you cannot afford it? It is a spirit of greed. It has everything to do with some elements of Jezebelian spirit, no man will put you in the house until you deal with it.

“There is a difference between appealing and requesting. When a wife wants to ask for something, she does not request it, she appeals to the husband. There is nothing wrong in appealing but those women who think it is their right have a problem.

“That is why you see people you think you are better than getting married and you are wondering. They got married because they have character. Or do you think it is your body that keeps a man? Dey play. That thing you think keeps a man is temporary. Wait until you give birth. Do not place value on those, place value on your character.”



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