Popular on-air personality, Do2dtun, has weighed in on the ongoing feud between iconic twin brothers Peter and Paul Okoye, aka Psquare.
In an open letter, Peter denied reports that he had taken his brother to the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) and expressed disappointment that Paul chose to collaborate with their elder brother, Jude Okoye, to humiliate him instead of working together to reclaim their top spot in the music industry.
Reacting to the situation, Do2dtun took to his Instagram page to share his thoughts, suggesting that the reason the issue persists is often due to the fear of disappointing others involved.
He implied that the desire to avoid hurting or disappointing others can sometimes hinder the resolution of conflicts.
In his words:
“Sometimes the reason why issues never get solved is cos of the fear of disappointing the people who bought your fight when you were upset or grieving. Fighting is not just the two people but the external forces involved. Especially if the external force is the family.
A fight that can never be resolved is a fight you can’t make up your mind to fix, damn the consequences and cut away the people that contributed to it. The reason why a fight lasts longer is most times, one party doesn’t have a mind of their own.
You can love and wish two people to be together, but you also have to love them with the same energy when don’t want to be together or when they make mistakes. Love is not conditional”.
“YOU CAN’T COMFORT THE AFFLICTED WITHOUT AFFLICTING
THE COMFORTABLE.No family is what it seems from the outside. Yours is not perfect either, but we feel we need accountability when it’s people we love, but at the end, why don’t we love them for what they created, not mistakes or decisions they made?”.
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